How do I get my significant other into latex?
Hey everybody! So I am finding a common theme of
questions from messages I receive through our website and fetlife, which is this: How can I get my girlfriend/wife to wear latex or try bondage? or How did Dan get you into latex?
I can’t even count how many times I have been asked these types of questions, so I thought it was high time I would share my answers with you all. My answers aren’t overly complicated, but this is just my experience and my perspective.
First and foremost, Dan didn’t really have to twist my arm to try anything. I am a sexual person by nature, so I was always up for trying something new. With that said, I think most women would be in the same boat. Women like when a man takes charge and brings something new to the table; we get bored with the same ‘ol thing, just like you do I think the most important part is that your woman feels comfortable with you and knows she can trust you. Let her know that you will love her regardless if she likes latex of not.
Secondly, its important how you present these things to her. If your woman seems a little more hesitant to try new things, you can’t just throw a latex catsuit at her and say, now wear this for 24 hours. You have to ease a person into the idea. If you aren’t sure about how she may react, start out with something small, maybe something familiar like a dress or some lingerie; an item of clothing that she is used to wearing in daily life. When she has it on, let her know how much you appreciate her wearing latex and show it. When I was new to latex, my biggest turn on was seeing how much it turned Dan on, then I began to think it was sexy and a turn on for myself.
Try to bring latex into your normal sex life, that way this new experience is brought into something special that you already enjoy together. I think when people are unfamiliar with the fetish world, they assume that when you wear latex you have to start buying into the fetish lifestyle, and start calling each other slave and 
sir, but that’s not how it has to be (its fun if you want it to be) You can live a “normal” life and enjoy latex too; latex just makes life a little more shiny.
Really with whatever you want to bring into your sex life, ease it slowly before you start pulling out all the stops and I’m sure before you know it she will be telling you to shine her up in no time!
Like I said simple words from a simple mind. I hope they help and if not, you still have our videos :)
xoxoxo Miss Kitsch
