Q&A with FK…
Referring to your “Significant Other” and getting them into latex post, I can’t even get my wife to do anything other then missionary… to me this is very frustrating, I love her very much she tells me shes bored with vanilla sex, and I have a latex fetish, but she says latex just feels slimy and smells funny, and then she told me just the fact that I like it is a turn off, which is completely unfair as I do not NEED latex to perform, I just want something different, any advice?
First of all, tell her that her vagina feels slimy and smells funny, but you still touch it :P
Secondly, it is very hard to prescibe advice to people I know nothing about, but from what little you have told me, this sounds like a confidence problem. I would start by getting her a Hitachi Magic Wand or some other toy that you are sure she will love. That will show her that experimenting and stepping out of normal sexual boundaries can be fun.
Then I would suggest asking her if there is anything sexual that she would like to try? Women have just as many fetish interests as men do, they are just much more reserved about them. If you experiment with what she wants to do, she will be much more likely to return the favor with what you want to do.
Also, if or when the time does come to shop for some latex, be careful not to only show her the catsuits and hoods, but also the more stylish skirts, dresses, and lingerie. And be sure to tell her how unbelievably sexy she looks in it! Be sure to tell her that all the time, no matter what she’s wearing!
Men do not compliment their significant other nearly enough, and I find that one of the most common reasons women are hesitant to wear rubber is that they think they will look bad in it. So if/when she dresses up in anything for you, be sure to let her know how much you appreciate it!
I hope this has helped, at least a little bit,
-FK
